Friday, June 25, 2010

Tangent #4: Videotaping worth the risk?

This isn't really a complete tangent, since it actually leads into my next CL encounter. But before getting into all of those details, I wanted to pose this question.

To make a long story short (for now, anyway), I met someone on CL who was very into videotaping their sexual encounters. Which was interesting and pretty hot, since I think it is typically guys that are more into recording their conquests for future viewing. But anyway, I guess she was just an exception this this rule.

When presenting this to me, she told me that she would give me a copy of the recording too, so I could reminisce about the experience with her (more details in the next post, but she made it clear she was looking for a one-time encounter with me). She was willing to give me enough verifiable information where I could pretty easily track her down afterward if needed....her sign of good faith, I suppose.

I'll let you know if I chose to participate shortly. But what do you think about this scenario, in general? Videotaping sex can be fairly dangerous even in the context of a long term relationship, nevermind a one-night stand. Is it worth taking a chance? Would it be more worth the risk for the man (i.e., is it much less likely a woman would be posting the video online for the world to see?). Granted, being single, I would be at much less risk than someone who is married or otherwise involved.

So exciting, yet so dangerous. Worth the risk?

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Is Shower Sex Overrated?

Back to our regular story next time, but for tonight, I must pose the above question.

I suppose I should provide some context, right? Ok. Well, I had sex tonight. It wasn't someone I met through CL or a related site, so I feel okay spoiling the story now. But anyway, she looooves having sex in the shower. So we did it. And I have to admit....I'm just not crazy about shower sex!

By the time it was over, my knees hurt from kneeling in the tub to eat her for like 20 minutes. My arms hurt from holding her up against the side of the shower while fucking her. My legs hurt from.... fucking standing alot, I guess. And it took both of us forever to cum. Oh, and my bathroom floor was flooded. Good times!

So, there are a few possibilities. I could just be badly out of shape (very possible). I might not be doing it in the most effective, comfortable manner. I might be too lazy (again, possible). Or maybe, just maybe, shower sex is simply overrated.....better in theory then in actual execution.

Am I way off base here? And do I just continue to suck it up for this shower sex lover that I'm fucking?