Encounter #8: Not So Fast.....Part 2

So, where did we leave off?

Ah yes. I had just brought this lovely lady to a powerful orgasm with my tongue, after bringing her right to the edge over and over again. And now she was saying it was my turn. I was feeling a little apprehensive.

She started by very slowly stroking me, up and down. Not fast enough to get me off, but just enough speed to feel quite good. She kissed me as she stroked. It felt wonderful. As she began speeding up with her hand, I tried to brace myself, knowing what was coming (or not coming!). But, as all guys know, trying too hard not to cum just accomplishes the opposite. So it was getting me there faster. I was so close....it felt so good....and then.....yes...she stopped. Ahh damn!

It was very frustrating, yet it did excite me on some level. Especially when she put me inside her mouth after I had a moment to calm down a little. Sucking me slowing. Up and down. Using her hand to stroke gently as she sucked. Again, I was getting there quickly. She was too good. I felt those initial quivers. The waves building within me. And she stopped.....looking at me with a devilish grin.

I was dying. I had to cum, and was aroused out of my mind. If she didn't do something quickly, I was going to go crazy. Fortunately, she did. She quickly pulled out a condom, and put it on me. Then jumped on top of me, and began riding me. No fooling around or teasing this time....she rode me hard and fast. I had no chance of lasting and erupted in a mind-blowing orgasm. Wow.

I have mixed memories of this encounter. It was incredibly intense and arousing, though I can still almost feel the torturous frustration from that day. So, do I recommend orgasm denial and edging? I would say yes, but on a limited basis. Too much of that would be enough to drive anyone insane! Even if it is insane in kind of a good way......

Phone/Cyber Sex Challenge

After my post where I claimed phone sex and cyber sex to be vastly overrated, I actually got a few private messages telling me how wrong I was. Claiming how hot and exciting either could be if I was doing it with the right person. Each email suggested (subtly and not so subtly in some cases) that if the phone and/or cyber sex had taken place with THEM, that I'd be singing a different tune. I just didn't know what I was missing!

Fair enough. In response to these messages I received, I would like to put out a challenge. A challenge to any reader who thinks I am wrong about the quality of phone and cyber sex, and wants to prove me wrong. The challenge is simple....engage me in a steamy session of phone or cyber sex (your choice). Prove to me that I was way off, and just missing out on the experience with the right person. The first person who seriously makes the experience so stimulating that it makes my opinion waver will get a post devoted to them and how they pulled off the impossible. I will admit I was wrong, and praise this individual to the high heavens for making me see the light.

Let's see if any of my previous private messengers (or anyone else) is brave enough to give it a try. Just email me if you are interested (link in my profile). Good luck!

For everyone else, we'll be back to our regularly scheduled CL stories next post.

Tangent #7: Most Desirable Bloggers

If you're like me, you fall into one of the following categories:  1. You write a sex-related blog.  2. You enjoy reading sex-related blogs.  3. You write a sex-related blog AND enjoy reading other sex-related blogs.  4. You just like sex in general.

So it's established, we're all pretty much in the same boat. I don't know about everyone else, but my mind often wanders and fantasizes when I read other blogs. Female blogs primarily, of course (no offense to Riff and others....I enjoy several male blogs as well, just not in quite the same way we are discussing today). But in those several female blogs I read consistently, I often get caught up in the stories. Wonder what it would be like to actually be with that person in the scenario they are describing. Think about how compatible we might be. What it might be like to touch them. Of course, those who post sexy little teaser pics just make this all the more easy! As do those who write in a certain way that just sucks you in.

With all that being said, here are my top 5 most desirable bloggers (in no particular order). All five can be found on my blog list to the bottom right of this post:

1. Secretly Naughty: Sexy stories? Check. Enticing pictures? Check. Appealing writing style? Double check. The verdict? Very desirable!

2. Gwen ("Sweetly Unassuming"): Gwen is a new blogger, just getting her blog off the ground. The foundation she has set is very engaging....makes me want to hear more about her story. I feel like I can relate to some of her general experiences already. And she just has a sexy vibe about her....

3. Sadie ("Sexy Sadie's Stories....."): Love the format of her confessions. Love the way she writes. Love the absolutely gorgeous pictures. Extremely desirable.

4. Kiera ("My Secret Hobby"): Kiera is really intriguing. Even moving past the seductive pictures on her site.....what blog with the subtitle "The Pursuit of Cock" can possible be bad?? And it isn't, believe. Also love the short, to the point posts (e.g., "I've been a bad horny girl. Punish me, please". The end). I desire Kiera.

5. Joanna Cake ("Having My Cake and Eating it Too): First of all, the cake theme is done very cleverly throughout the blog. Secondly, Joanna does a great job talking about a variety of diverse, interesting topics in her blog. But what makes her extra desirable? She offers readers a chance to order a recording of her reading one of her sexy posts in her assuredly sexy voice. How can you beat that??

Pretty desirable group of ladies there guys, trust me. Highly recommend all of their blogs.