The phone/cyber sex challenge has concluded. Here is a summary of the results.
As I expected, there were not a large amount of people brave enough to take me up on the challenge (despite many vehement arguments against my post claiming both activities to be overrated). Though this was not shocking, it did not provide a significant amount of chances for my mind to be changed. Anyway, here are the results....of course, each individual will remain anonymous.
Total number of responses received: 6
Total number of people for phone sex: 2
Total number of people for cyber sex: 4
Total number of people actually following through on phone sex: 1
Total number of people actually following through on cyber sex: 3
So overall, a total of 4 real contestants. The phone sex contestant was very anxious during our session. It was enjoyable, but went fairly quickly. She did have a sexy voice though, despite her nerves. Cyber contestant #1 was not very good, I'm afraid to say. Very un-descriptive and rushed. Though she did self-identify this as we went along. I think she was just kind of bored and horny, so she figured that she would play the game. Can't fault her for that.
Cyber contestant #2, a fellow blogger, was MUCH better. Very erotic, writes very well, and did an excellent job. Though we both enjoyed the session, here was the funny part.....she thought cyber/phone sex was overrated too! And despite the fact that we both had fun, we both came away with the same conclusion.....we were right! Not that the session wasn't good, but it just left us wanting each other for real! And sadly, due to lack of proximity, that just wasn't in the cards.
Cyber contestant #3 was interesting....she LOVED cyber sex, and was convinced to show me that it was the best thing since sliced bread. Was she good? Yes. Did she convince me? No. Why not? She had me thinking about cyber contestant #2 the entire time, and how badly I wanted to experience my session with her in real life!
Conclusions:
1. Most enjoyable experience: Cyber contestant #2
2. Change in opinion of either phone or cyber sex: No
3. Why no change of opinion: Simply because either experience is going to lead to one of two outcomes: 1) it's going to be somewhat awkward and not so great, or 2) it's going to be really good, and you're just going to want to fuck the person for real!!!
4. When is cyber/phone sex good: In the context of a longer term relationship, where it can be used to add some spice when people are apart....and it is guaranteed they will be fucking in person again soon!
Ok, I think I've belabored this topic enough now. We will move on with our story shortly.
Well, I'm glad that you were willing to test the theory. So sad that no one was able to change your mind. ;)
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Gwen